Monday, 16 June 2014

16 Wildly Successful People Who Overcame Huge Obstacles To Get There

You've heard it before: "If at first you don't succeed, try again." Sometimes you may feel like that's just a saying, but it is absolutely not. The 16 incredible stories below show how even horrible tragedies and setbacks can help fuel a drive for success.
From Oprah Winfrey's scarred childhood to Bill Gates failed business ventures, these people have been through the grinder, and came out even better than before. Their stories stress one of the most important lessons of all: Never ever give up. Scroll through the list for some serious inspiration.
Bill Gates' first business failed.
Yes, the richest person in the whole world couldn't make any money at first. Gates' first company, Traf-O-Data (a device which could read traffic tapes and process the data), failed miserably. When Gates and his partner, Paul Allen, tried to sell it, the product wouldn't even work. Gates and Allen didn't let that stop them from trying again though. Here's how Allen explained how the failure helped them: "Even though Traf-O-Data wasn’t a roaring success, it was seminal in preparing us to make Microsoft’s first product a couple of years later."
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Albert Einstein didn't speak until he was four years old.
Einstein didn't have the best childhood. In fact, many people thought he was just a dud. He never spoke for the first three years of his life, and throughout elementary school, many of his teachers thought he was lazy and wouldn't make anything of himself. He always received good marks, but his head was in the clouds, conjuring up abstract questions people couldn't understand. But he kept thinking and, well, he eventually developed the theory of relativity, which many of us still can't wrap our heads around.
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Jim Carrey used to be homeless.
Carrey revealed to James Lipton on "Inside the Actor's Studio" that when he was 15, he had to drop out of school to support his family. His father was an unemployed musician and as the family went from "lower middle class to poor," they eventually had to start living in a van. Carrey didn't let this stop him from achieving his dream of becoming a comedian: He went from having his dad drive him to comedy clubs in Toronto to starring in mega-blockbusters and being known as one of the best comedic actors of an era.
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Bethany Hamilton had her arm bitten off by a shark.
Hamilton started surfing when she was just a child. At age 13, an almost-deadly shark attack resulted in her losing her left arm. She was back on her surfboard one month later, and two years after that, she won first place in the Explorer Women’s Division of the NSSA National Championships. Talk about determination.
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Benjamin Franklin dropped out of school at age ten.
Franklin's parents could only afford to keep him in school until his tenth birthday. That didn't stop the great man from pursuing his education. He taught himself through voracious reading, and eventually went on to invent the lightning rod and bifocals. Oh, and he became one of America's Founding Fathers.
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Richard Branson has dyslexia.
Branson was a pretty bad student -- he didn't get good marks and he did poorly on standardised tests. Instead of giving up, he used the power of his personality to drive him to success. Today, Branson, known for developing Virgin Records and many of its more technologically advanced spinoffs, is the fourth richest person in the UK.
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Stephen King's first novel was rejected 30 times.
If it weren't for King's wife, "Carrie" may not have ever existed. After being consistently rejected by publishing houses, King gave up and threw his first book in the trash. His wife, Tabitha, retrieved the manuscript and urged King to finish it. Now, King's books have sold over 350 million copies and have been made into countless major motion pictures.
stephen king

Oprah Winfrey gave birth at age 14 and lost her child.
She is one of the most successful and richest people in the world today, but Winfrey didn't always have it so easy. She grew up in Milwaukee, Wis. and was repeatedly molested by her cousin, uncle and a family friend. She eventually ran away from home, and at age 14 gave birth to a baby boy who shortly died after.
But Winfrey's tragic past didn't stop her from becoming the force she is today. She excelled as an honors student in high school, and won an oratory contest which secured her a full scholarship to college. Now the entrepreneur and personality has the admiration of millions and a net worth of $2.9 billion.
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Thomas Edison failed 1,000 times before creating the lightbulb. 

Although the exact number of tries has been debated, ranging from 1,000 to 10,000 attempts, it's safe to say Edison tried and failed a whole lot before he successfully created his beacon of light. His response to his repeated failures? “I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”
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Kris Carr turned her cancer into a business of hope and healing.
In 2003, Karr was a 32-year-old New Yorker just enjoying life. But then, a regular checkup at her doctor's office resulted in a diagnosis of a rare and incurable Stage IV cancer called cancer called epithelioid hemangioendothelioma, existing in her liver and lungs.
Instead of succumbing to the disease, Carr decided to challenge her diagnosis head on. She attacked her cancer with a brand new nutritional lifestyle, and turned her experience into a series of successful self-help books and documentaries. Eventually, she launched her own wellness website, which is followed by over 40,000 people. Today, Karr is celebrating a decade of "thriving with cancer," and is now revered as one of the most prominent experts on healthy living.
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Jay-Z couldn't get signed to any record labels.
No one can stop Jay-Z. He came from a rough Brooklyn neighborhood and had big dreams to make it big as a rapper. Unfortunately, the rest of the world didn't agree with him at first. Not one record label would sign him. Yet that didn't stop him from creating his own music powerhouse. His label would eventually turn into the insanely lucrative Roc-A-Fella Records. Here's proof Jay-Z is on top: Forbes has estimated his net worth at $500 million, and TIME ranked him at one of their 2013 Most Influential People In The World. And he's married to BeyoncĂ©.
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Vincent Van Gogh only sold one painting in his lifetime.
Van Gogh is considered one of the greatest artists of all time, yet the poor guy only sold one painting the entire time he was alive: "The Red Vineyard at Arles (The Vigne Rouge)," which is now in the Pushkin Museum of Fine Arts in Moscow. Even though he made no money, he still painted over 900 works of art. Though his persistence went unnoticed when he was alive, Van Gogh proves you don't need external validation to be proud of the work you create.
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Franklin Roosevelt became partially paralyzed at 39.
After vacationing in Canada, Roosevelt developed polio, which eventually left him paralyzed from the waist down for the rest of his life. Even though he couldn't walk, he went on to lead the country as one of the most respected and memorable presidents in history.
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Simon Cowell had a failed record company.
By his late twenties, Cowell had made a million dollars and lost a million dollars. Cowell told The Daily Mail in 2012, "‘I’ve had many failures. The biggest were at times when I believed my own hype. I’d had smaller failures, signing bands that didn’t work, but my record company going bust, that was the first big one." Even after such a momentous loss, Cowell picked himself up and became one of the biggest forces in reality television, serving as a judge for "Pop Idol," "The X Factor," "Britain's Got Talent" and "American Idol." Forbes has estimated his net worth at $95 million.
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Charlize Theron witnessed her mother kill her father.
When Theron was 15, she witnessed her mother shoot her alcoholic father in an act of self-defense. Instead of letting the trauma immobilize her ambition, Theron channelled her energy into making a name for herself. She would eventually become one of the most respected and talented actresses, becoming the first South African actress to win an Academy Award.
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Steven Spielberg was rejected from USC, twice.
You read that right. One of the most prolific filmmakers of all time, the man who brought us "Shindler's List," "Jaws," "E.T." and "Jurassic Park" couldn't get into the film school of his choice. Maybe, just sometimes, education can be a little overrated. In the end, Spielberg would get the last laugh, when USC awarded him an honorary degree in 1994. Two years later, he became a trustee of the university.
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Correction: A previous version miscounted the number of people in this list. There are 16.



Sunday, 25 May 2014

OVERCOMING CHALLENGES WITH FAITH AND HUMOUR


I decided to write this blog because if one person gains inspiration from reading it then my efforts will have been worthwhile.  According to data published by Cancer Research UK on their web site, 49,936 women and 349 men in the UK were diagnosed with invasive breast cancer in 2011.  Despite these figures, I never thought it would happen to me.  Here is my story with a little humour thrown in.

It was late August 2012 with the encouragement of my friend, I went to my GP after having discovered a lump on my right breast.  I had discovered the lump which was the size of a 2 penny piece about two months earlier but I had been so caught up in my day to day life; juggling motherhood with a busy and demanding job, dealing with the break up of my relationship with my son’s father and trying to come to terms with the fact that I was now a single parent. In the February of the same year I had left my job to set up my recruitment business working from home.  I felt overwhelmed and under tremendous stress, so I pushed the lump to the back of my mind and hoped it would go away. 
My GP made an appointment for me to see a Consultant at the local hospital. After a mammogram (not as entertaining as the video) and a series of tests. He diagnosed invasive breast cancer of the right breast.  He informed me that I should have a mastectomy as soon as possible.   The news came as a bombshell.

I was paralysed by fear, not so much for myself but for my son. I couldn’t bear the thought that I might not see him grow up. His father and grandparents lived overseas and didn’t have much contact with him. I was also worried how I would pay my mortgage and meet my other financial commitments given I did not have a job. Fortunately, I had a spare bedroom which I advertised for a lodger on the Internet. I applied to various charities including MacMillan Cancer Support and Marie Curie Cancer Care for help and my sister was very generous in giving me money on a regular basis.
I decided that the only thing I could do was to leave it to God. After being given the news, I went straight to the hospital chapel where I broke down sobbing.  I prayed that  God would give me the strength and courage to overcome the biggest challenge of my life and heal me of breast cancer.  I told myself I was very lucky that I had been diagnosed after having undergone IVF treatment which resulted in the birth of my son two years previously. Had I been diagnosed before the IVF treatment, and being almost 50 years of age,  I would not have had my son.  All I kept thinking is 'God is Good' and if I have faith and stay positive everything will be alright.  

I sought a second opinion from another Consultant, his diagnosis was exactly the same as the first Consultant’s.  He felt it was important to have the breast removed as soon as possible followed by chemotherapy. I was still struggling to come to terms with the thought of losing my breast. I wanted yet another opinion so through the tenacity and determination of a friend,  we went to see a Consultant in Rome whose treatment for cancer was rather alternative and unconventional. I decided that the treatment he was offering wasn’t for me.  We returned to London resigned that I would go ahead with the mastectomy,  but before I could have the operation which was scheduled for September, there was something I felt I had to do.
Shrine Of Our Lady Of Fatima

Years ago, I had visited the Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima in Portugal. Whilst there I made a promise to Our Lady that if she blessed me with a child I would bring that child to Her Shrine.  So, that is exactly what I did, accompanied by two friends, my son and I went to Fatima.  When we returned, I was mentally prepared to have my surgery.
The operation was a success. I felt totally relieved, and confident that God was  blessing me with strength and courage and as a result I would be fine. My family and friends were amazing! They all rallied round and supported and encouraged me. We tried very hard to minimise the impact all of this was having on my son.  It would appear that he was aware that something was going on because when  I came home after my operation he said to me, ‘mummy breast gone’! I couldn’t believe my ears.

After the mastectomy, I underwent chemotherapy.  Thanks to the skill of the surgeon and his team  they managed to remove the breast and some of the infected lymph nodes.  I was due to have 5 rounds of chemotherapy but after the first round I received a call from the hospital informing me of my low white blood count. I was advised to avoid crowded places for fear that I might catch an infection as my ability to fight any infection was greatly reduced as a result of the chemotherapy.  I thought to myself, if my immune system was so badly affected after just one round of chemotherapy, how would I cope with 4 more rounds? With that question going through my mind,  I decided not to continue with the chemotherapy but to focus on alternative treatments and therapies.  

It is true what they say, 'every cloud has a silver lining' because sixteen months after the mastectomy, a right breast reconstruction and left breast augmentation (lift),  I now have the breasts of a 21 year old, compliment of the NHS. 
I feel 21 again!
The surgeon and her team did a marvellous job.  I am now healthy, in fact I have not felt this good in years! I have start a new business and I am looking forward to meeting my soulmate and seeing my son grow into a fine young man.

Maybe he has a little to learn
My son and I have both benefited and have been greatly enriched from this experience.  We have had people from all over the world staying with us, all of whom have contributed something to our lives. As a result my son is growning into a very tolerant, respectful, happy and confident boy.    


My Soulmate?

When I was diagnosed, I prayed to God that He would heal me so that I could resume my life.  Well, God has done much much more than that.  He has healed me and blessed me with a new life.  One where I spend more time  with my family and friends and helping others.  In helping me overcome this challenge He has made me realise that the really important things in life are not the things money can buy.

 It has been an amazing journey. I am very grateful for the experience and I Thank God that He has brought me through it.  I had the support of some  amazing and wonderful people; from my friends and family who were always there for me to the guests who stayed at my home, whose support went beyond the financial, to the hospital staff, through to the volunteers who visited me in my home and helped me with my son.  I bless you all and thank you for your love and support!!